"... The problem is that whenever one wants to have more reason than the other. And that's where lies the great danger."
Unfortunately for many couples do not have the wisdom to manage their relationship, eventually moving on to the other side: the side of the offense. Are those "petty bickering" that ordinary every day wearing a romance that will at first was supposed to be a beautiful love story. Everything always for things as mundane as a bad evening clothes, made a bad food, bad played an explanation, a justification without connection, an object that breaks, finally, attitudes that always in the end destroys a walk, a conversation and even a whole day. And this is where those come loaded catchwords like, I regretted having married! you are disturbed (a)! You only talk nonsense! I'm leaving! You never learns! Are you stupid! and so on.
For many this is the adaptation phase. To me it's lack of love! Because as you'll offend the person I love most once, does not offend anyone who loves, supports. Who loves does not hurt, Cure! The problem is that whenever one wants to have more reason than the other. And this is where lies the great danger. Let us learn from the Apostle Paul when he said: ... Love does not seek its own ... (1 Corinthians 13:5). This is Love. You give everything for each other. Just like the other without ulterior motives. That's not how the Lord Jesus did for mankind? Not so the church must be with God?
So Call it (a) to chat and make a vote during this week to love as ever, just praising him (a) with pleasant words and sincere. At the end of the week, analyze the results together and make another wish: to remain so until the end of the month. Then at the beginning of another month, when analyzing the results also make another wish: to remain so until the end of the year and then ...

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